Don’t be a dumped boyfriend who does everything wrong like Mike did.  Leslie his girlfriend could not go to a party so he went without her.   He felt on his own and decided to amuse himself with another of the girls who was there and Leslie’s friends lost no time in telling her Leslie was furious and called Mike to tell him that all was finished between them. 

Mike was very upset at this outcome.  He knew that what he had done was foolish but didn’t feel it was reason enough for her to end their relationship.

He decided he was going to get back his girlfriend, but as he did know what to do to achieve this, he passed from making one mistake to another. 

Instead of apologizing and moving forward, Mike went to see Leslie, begging her to take him back.   Leslie was having nothing to do with him and sent him packing.  

Mike insisted and by showering her with messages day and night. He could not leave her alone for an instant.  He sent her presents of some flowers and the perfume she preferred.  One night, he serenaded her with some love songs under her window and the neighbors were furious at being woken up so they called the police.

Mike clearly did not realize that Leslie needed some time and space to reflect on where she was going with their relationship. 

Undaunted at his lack of success, Mike the started taking other girls out and taking care to see that Leslie knew he was doing so.  Mike knew that Leslie had a friend called Anne who was rather reserved and never seemed to find a boyfriend.  He took her out thinking that Leslie would be jealous.  . 

But Leslie was simply very angry.  She felt that Mike was profiting from Anne to get her even more annoyed.  She thought Anne should have been intelligent enough to see through Mike’s strategy.   

Leslie in the mean time started going out with another friend and Mike mocked her by saying it was nothing more than a cheap rebound affair.   Leslie had had enough and decided she wanted nothing more to do with Mike as she was moving on. 

If Mike had been sensible and thought things out better from the start, the relationship could probably have been recovered.   If Mike had apologized properly in the first place, Leslie would have likely forgiven him.  He stopped all possibilities of getting his girlfriend back because he behaved like an immature idiot. 

So, if you are a dumped boyfriend, heed Mike’s lesson and learn how to do things the right way if you want to win your girlfriend back. 

 

Joe Bisley

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Joe Bisley writes articles about human relationship problems.

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